BBNaija S9: Topher Feels Threatened by Ben’s Closeness to Anita
In the latest season of Big Brother Naija, called ‘No Loose Guard,’ housemate Topher has expressed his frustration over his girlfriend Anita’s close relationship with her best friend, Ben. Topher feels that Ben is constantly getting in the way of his relationship with Anita, making it difficult for him to have any alone time or meaningful interactions with her.
In a conversation with another housemate, Nelly, Topher opened up about his concerns. He shared that every time he tries to comfort Anita or have a moment with her, Ben is always there first. Whether it’s giving compliments or just being present, Ben seems to be ahead of him. “I haven’t been in this kind of situation where there’s a girl and her male best friend,” Topher said. “Even when I want to compliment Anita on something like her nails, Ben has already done it.”
Topher also took his concerns to his diary session, where he expressed even more frustration about Ben’s constant presence. He feels that while having a male best friend is acceptable, Ben’s actions seem to go beyond the boundaries of friendship. Topher questioned whether Ben might have deeper feelings for Anita and is intentionally trying to keep other men away from her. “Being her male bestie is cool, but you trying to come in between what I have with Anita is what I don’t understand,” Topher explained. “I know you have your own person, is it that you like Anita and you don’t want any other guy to be with her?”
Topher’s feelings highlight a common issue in relationships where one partner has a close friend of the opposite sex. His struggle to maintain his relationship with Anita, despite Ben’s interference, adds an interesting dynamic to the house. As the show progresses, viewers are eager to see how this tension between Topher, Anita, and Ben will play out and whether it will affect their relationships.
With each passing day, the drama in the Big Brother Naija house intensifies, and Topher’s situation is just one of the many unfolding stories. Fans are watching closely to see if Topher can find a way to navigate his feelings and maintain his relationship with Anita without Ben’s interference. The question remains: will Topher confront Ben, or will this love triangle continue to complicate things in the house?
