BBNaija’s Doyin Advises Women: “A Man Isn’t Obligated to Support You Until Marriage”
Reality TV star Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David, popularly known as Doyin from Big Brother Naija, has offered advice to women, urging them not to expect financial support from their partners until marriage.
In a candid message shared on her Instagram story, Doyin stressed that any financial assistance a man provides to his partner before marriage should be seen as an act of generosity, not obligation.
Her advice came in response to a female fan who sought guidance after her boyfriend ended their relationship due to being labeled “stingy.”
Doyin’s perspective on the matter is clear: “Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you.” She emphasized that while it’s fortunate to have a partner who willingly supports financially, it’s crucial not to feel entitled to their money.
She highlighted the misconception perpetuated by the internet that women are entitled to financial support from men. Doyin reminded her audience that earning money is not easy, and individuals should not expect their partners to spend freely without reason.
Doyin encouraged women to seek financial independence by securing employment rather than relying on their partners for “random money.”
In essence, Doyin’s message underscores the importance of mutual respect and understanding in relationships, emphasizing that financial support should not be assumed but appreciated as an expression of love and generosity.
